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Ambiguous loss is the complex type of grief that loved ones of missing persons experience

Different to standard loss, the lack of clarity complicates and delays the grieving process, resulting in an unresolved, continual grief commonly referred to as ‘unending not-knowing.’

*Ambiguous Loss, the theory and the book; Emeritus Professor Dr Pauline Boss (Harvard University Press, 1999/2000)

UNIQUE FORM OF GRIEF

Psychologists around the world consider it to be the most traumatic kind of loss and most unmanageable form of stress.

Without the rituals associated with a clear loss, such as bereavement (ceremonies like a funeral, burial, and being able to visit a grave), families and friends of missing people experience disenfranchised grief.


In Australia, we’re lucky to have internationally renowned expert Assoc. Prof. Sarah Wayland, with whom we’ve collaborated since Day 1. Sarah spent her 2005 Churchill Fellowship with ambiguous loss pioneer Dr Pauline Boss, and brought her wisdom on this unique form of grief back with her.

In 2020, we commissioned a pilot program connecting families seeking specialised counselling psychologists and counsellors trained by Sarah. Based on the success of this pilot, Sarah has since trained service providers across Australia and abroad, including the AFP’s National Missing Persons Coordination Centre, the Red Cross, WayAhead, as well as charities in the UK, Ireland and Canada.


In 2023, we made Sarah’s expertise accessible for everyone.

Ambiguous Loss

MASTERCLASS

In partnership with Assoc. Prof. Sarah Wayland, The Missed Foundation is proud to provide insight and training to impacted families, the general public and those regularly providing support to families.

This world-first initiative provides vital professional and personal development to those who work with, or are close to, loved ones of missing people (including police, media, volunteers, social workers and mental health professionals).

OUR WORK

Supporting those impacted

We have created practical and emotional tools to help cope.

The Hope Narratives

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What’s Missing Podcast

In 2019, we were approached by internationally acclaimed podcast producers, Casefile Presents….

You Can’t Ask That – Families Of Missing Persons

ABC TV and iview, 26 May 2021

Missing Persons Guide​

Matty Podcast

The Unmissables

Sadly, all many people get to know about the people reported missing…

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