Ambiguous Loss 101

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Ambiguous Loss 101

This world-first initiative provides vital professional and personal development to those who work with, or are close to, loved ones of missing people. Police, media, mental health professionals as well as people with lived experience will learn about the ways in which ambiguous loss shows up in people’s lives when someone is missing.

The first component, Ambiguous Loss 101, introduces the concept of ambiguous loss, how it presents itself for families and friends of missing people, and the ways in which you can manage your reactions to that ambiguity.

“If you’ve ever missed a loved one, you can imagine how devastating it is when your loved one disappears. It is a unique form of loss that requires understanding. This masterclass is a vital community resource addressing the often-misunderstood loss and grief caused by long term disappearance. Congratulations to Missed and Dr Sarah Wayland on the production of this essential resource.”

Ged Kearney MP

Hon. Ged Kearney MP

A/Minister for Health and Aged Care

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Ambiguous Loss Masterclass

Ambiguous Loss 101 Slides

Download the deck of slides covering the fundamentals touched on in the video.

Creator and host

Dr Sarah Wayland

Dr Sarah Wayland draws on her 20 years’ experience working in missing persons and exploring the intersection of hopefulness and hopelessness that ambiguous loss creates to deliver this evidence-based masterclass, helping people better support loved ones of missing people as they navigate the uncertainty.

Education

Ambiguous Loss Masterclass

Advanced skills training

The second component of this masterclass, Advanced Skills Training, offers a deeper dive into the topic. Its intended audience is professionals regularly providing support to families, including specialised police, counsellors and support workers.

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UNIQUE FORM OF GRIEF

Ambiguous Loss

The unique form of grief families and friends of missing people experience is called ambiguous loss. Many psychologists consider ambiguous loss to be the most traumatic kind of grief and the most unmanageable form of stress.

*Ambiguous Loss, the theory and the book; Emeritus Professor Dr Pauline Boss (Harvard University Press, 1999/2000)